I am confident gentleman who likes real people. I have many and varied interests and like talking and listening. I am looking for a an ongoing friendship with a nice down to earth lady. If it develops into something more permanent I won't scream too loudly Sex, for me, should be a beautiful experience with mutual pleasure the goal. To that end willingness to participate in lots of massage, touching and oral is pretty important. A one night stand is ok (I am a man after all - but would prefer to find someone with similar needs to get together as mutually convenient to satisfy some basic urges. "Wham,bam,thankyou ma'am" is not my style - I would much prefer there is some sort of connection before the physical act so that there is respect for each other (feelings, boundaries and as people).

My Ideal Person My Ideal Person: My ideal person is an open minded lady who is looking to share activities such as dinner, movies, touring and ultimately to explore new dimensions to hers and my sexuality.