Update: I am an older white man, single. live alone in a nice home in the countryside near Redding, Ca. My short term goal is to find a women or couple who like to play, It can be FWB's and when either is free to play. I am healthy, slim, good shape for my age and well hung. I can travel some or we can use my house and it is private and scenic. My long term goal would be to find a woman ,and/or Sub who would like to explore the BDSM lifestyle. I have a thing for Asian, Black, East Asian, Middle Eastern women but any race who is a good fit. I have reached to the point in life that I would like to have a partner, buddy and sex toy to play. We would need to be a good fit. Age is not a factor if we are compatible.

My Ideal Person If I can find a woman who loves sex and loves to explore, Great. Or a couple who is into swinging or more kinky lifestyle, Great. Ideally IF I found a couple who's husband loves to watch and join in and I can stop by there place if local and just take the wife when I want. Even better. lol.

Long term, it would be nice to find a woman who I am compatible with and loves to play and or get kinky. If we are compatible, it can be a live in situation or IF it is a on going part time arrangement, great. I have had many girls who say they want to be a part of my life but turns out they are either fakes or scams as we all have learned on this site. If you are trying to just get money, then move on. Won't work with me. But if you are real and looking for a LTR. then let's talk and see if we are a good fit. I have a lot to offer a real woman who is looking for a real relationship and loves to play. We can talk about all the things we both might want to do or try. I am very open.