[B] Updated March 31st, 2024 [/B] [B] TLDR Version: [/B] The short version is that I am native LA/OC county single, respectful, laid back, active, healthy, drug and alcohol free, athletic, open-minded and no drama full time graduate student (PhD) that is just here to meet couples and single women to enjoy my free time with cutting loose, having fun, and trying anything new that sounds fun and interesting to me. Always open to chatting and getting to know any honest and genuine people, so feel free to reach out if you are interested and I promise to get back to you as soon as I possibly can. Hey and it is nice to meet you reader(s). I am a 28-year-old full time graduate student based out of the greater OC and LA (and sometimes within the IE) areas that is here to explore and enjoy life in less conventional ways with real and honest people that I get to know, who have no drama, want to enjoy life as much as possible when possible and who I like spending my free time with. I am a pretty active (work out like 5-6x a week) and outgoing person whenever I can be because I mostly work from home alone all day and thus really do like to get out of the house and enjoy my time with others. In particular, I love to go out to concerts/shows, hiking, visiting the local museums but I am very much the person that is up for anything the piques my interest and involves spending some good time with those I like. Generally, though, I much prefer a more intimate setting wherein I can have good conversation and time with a smaller group of friends. I should add though that I do not drink nor do any sort of drugs/substances though hold no judgment against those that do. I just have never had an interest in either no matter how much I have been offered by friends and family though I am perfectly fine hangout with those that like to have a few drinks or a smoke to relax and cut loose like at a bar or brewery. Regarding my sexual preferences here, I am completely straight and would best describe myself as a switch and pleaser. I really get off pleasing my sexual partner(s) and seeing/knowing that they are having a great time and thus will do all that I can to make it so (not a selfish lover in any way). More generally though I am mostly into and up for anything that does not involve the following: Bodily pain, urine, fecal matter and humiliation or degradation of myself in any way. What I love in particular, however, is eating pussy (more than welcome to sit on my face), getting a woman to squirt, dp/dvp for any women that are into that as well, little of role playing, breeding/creampie-ing, being a bull for a couple, recently gangbangs, a great blow job of course and anything else that sounds fun, nasty, and hot as hell. Now regarding couples, I do want to say the following since couples rightly so may have plenty of reservations/stipulations/standards because the site is overwhelming dominated by single male profiles. In my time here I have had the pleasure of meeting and playing with some great couples. In fact, the overwhelming majority of people that I have met here have been couples and I am glad that has been the case. I have learned a lot from the time I have spent with all these couples and am thankful to them all for that. I am never going to be rude or disrespectful in any way towards any couples nor look to cause/start any drama and will follow to the tee any and all rules given by the couple and that includes any photos and video been taken. I am very comfortable with photos and video taken so long as my face is either not included or blurred out in post. In fact, if photos and videos like to be taken, I am more than happy to bring my camera, lens, and on body flash over to be used. I have been getting into photography as a hobby and been liking to try out erotica a bit with it. However, I am not bi (I have tried and it is just not me) and so, as much as I might be asked, I am not going to be playing with the male half of a couple. I am comfortable with the male half of a couple joining his partner in say blowing my (and even eating ass if that is your thing) and other pleasurable acts but I am not going to reciprocate (sorry). I just wanted to mention and stress this because I do not want to waste any couple’s time that do like to invite a single guy to join them so long as the single guy is bi and thus play with both member of the couples. Now having said all of this, if you have reached it this fall and are even remotely interested, feel free to send me a message even if it is just to chat, ask a question, hang out and pass the time as I will get back to any and all messages sent my way as soon as I can. Sometimes I might just say that I am a bit busy and will get back to you later with a proper response, but I promise I will do all that I can to get to all messages. This is just me trying to do my part to make the place here a little bit more welcoming and less sketchy. Cheers.

My Ideal Person In all honestly, it is a bit difficult for me to define exactly what to my ideal person or couple is since my interests and desire fluctuate and change over inconsistent periods of time and thus so too how I would describe and define my ideal person or couple. Nevertheless, I can certainly say that at any point in time my ideal person(s) would satisfies the majority of the following listed items given in no particular order:

1). Discretion. I like and want to keep this sort of business/fun to those I choice to meet up with and myself and I would like the same of those I meet up with.
2). Similar sexual interests, desires, and mind(s) to explore and try different things.
3). Friendly, fun relaxed, open-minded personality that likes to get out and enjoy life as much as possible. Do not have to be a consistent outgoing adventure seeker though.
4). Someone(s) with little to no drama and who does not want to start/cause any drama. Life is hard and taxing enough on its own, why make it worse. Plus, this is supposed to all be about fun.
5). Someone(s) that are not solely looking for a one-time thing. I just want to be clear, on occasion I will meet up with someone for a one-time thing, however, I have become less and less open to it the longer I have been here on the site. I mostly am now looking for something more consistent and genuine with one honest single woman or couples from here that I can have an actual friendship of some sort with. Maybe a few if all are fine with that. If anything more serious develops, sweet but only if it comes naturally.
6). Importantly, being an open and honest person(s) that has no problems communicating, their desires, feelings, and anything else that is on their mind. And I will stress that honesty and openness are very important to me and I would hope the same is the case for anyone that I get to share my free time with from here.
7). Being a wholeheartedly respectful, nondogmatic nor overly judgmental person of others and their ideals and beliefs.
. Someone that takes care of and looks after their health and body. And I am not saying that you have to be some incredibly fit and athletic person(s) that goes to the gym regularly, just someone that is mindful of their own bodily health (i.e. average body type at worst).
9). Not being an excessive drug user or drinker. Though I am entirely drug and alcohol free I am completely fine and comfortable with those that like to drink and smoke a little to cut loose and relax but not excessively where it is affecting your healthy livelihood and daily life. If you are excessive in either case it is not going to work out.

Let me also add that age, race/ethnicity, religion do not matter all that much to me. I understand for others that these things might be very important in any potential people that they meet up with from here but for me that is not really the case. I have met up with and had some great time with people from here across all those spectrums and glad that I have done so. I will admit though that larger differences in ages can make it more difficult to connect with others from here, however, for those that are older, more mature and experienced than I and are hesitant play with a younger guy, I would be more than happy to chat and assuage any concerns you might have regarding maturity, respectfulness, and experience in playing with a younger man (Judge me for who I am after learning about who I am).

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, An airplane, A remote wilderness spot, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Fetishes, Role Playing, Threesomes, Making Home "Movies", Voyeurism, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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