I read profiles! If your private messages are completely opposite from your profile...you're wasting your time with me Sending an unsolicited dick pic only gets you blocked. Messages with "I'm in a sexless marriage", "my wife is sick and has no desire for sex" "I always wanted to be with a Black woman" "I'm in Chicago, lets meet!" "I visit Chicago twice a week" "I'm moving to Chicago in a few months" Blah blah blah. I have very little patience or interest in this BS. I won't judge you married men-- but you should accept that I will not assist you in having an affair--period! Take that drama somewhere else!

My Ideal Person I LOVE a sexy Black man....I'm not a Cougar, so I'm not interested in playing with cubs. If you're younger than me, I am not interested. It's MY preference fellas.
Ladies thank you for your interest, but I am not gay or bi. Please respect this...you are more aggressive than the men. There is no need to keep blocking you...

Men be in physical shape. I prefer an athletic build. Overweight, Stocky, Heavyset is not my type. I will request a recent full-bodied pic. Must have teeth with a bright smile!!! Not interested if you are bisexual, bicurious, or open to TV or TG! No exceptions!!

LOCAL! LOCAL! LOCAL!
No long distance calls, texts, meets...I appreciate the messages from Wisconsin, Georgia, Canada, UK, etc; however I have NO interest in coordinating my time or schedules to meet.

Must know how to explore my body with your tongue---breasts and kitty included!

I WANT sexy LOCAL men...somehow everyone misses this line.. Repeat: I WANT a sexy LOCAL man!!! Most Members tend to have an issue with this...Get over it! It's called PREFERENCES! Its my desire and MY choice. There are over a million women on this site...JUST MOVE ON!

Throwing a tantrum will not get you any closer to me or my kitty.
If I reply hi...it doesnt mean I want to meet you or fuck you.
Pushy, aggressive, lonely men please move on... I have nothing for you.

Lastly, when you are shown respect at least have the courtesy to give it back.