I want a Friend with Benefits type situation, with added kindness. We are going to hang out a few times before we sleep together. We are going to discuss all manner of things, from esoteric to personal. I'm open, honest, kind, and generally mean no harm. I hope you're all of those things (and more). I like smart, well spoken men with a stronger than average propensity to get into trouble. No taken men. None. Nada. Non. Separated for a reasonable period of time? Absolutely fine. Married and talking about getting separated? Absolutely not.