Self employed "day job" own 2 financial/insurance agencies and still serve with coast guard many weekends, many interests mostly outdoors activities going back to childhood when i achieved my eagle scout rank i enjoy being in the woods especially these days riding one of my offroad vehicles or atvs on the many trails that surround my property in pleasant mount , pa i cant seem to decide though between this or being out on ocean on my boat which is in NJ by one of my other properties most would describe me as the opposite of shy as i also enjoy speaking with and meeting new people which includes pretty much everyone I come in contact with and hearing their stories, that said it has been almost 20 years since I have pursued any romantic encounters as for the bulk of those years I have been dating or married and as such am hoping this is a good way to meet some women with no pressure and being a very direct person in general with all my interactions i like that this way of meeting is very clear in terms of expectations and parties are all aware of the overall intent. on a final note I a have been fortunate enough to travel around the world to many countries which has given me a better understanding/appreciation of my situation/culture as well as that of others across the board. it has also made me a big believer in karma and treating our fellow "man" with kindness, respect and consideration in all circumstances .I am often amazed at how oblivious or unaccaountable people seem for their own actions and how they effect others one thing i dont tolerate and i guess would be my biggest pet peave. A big part also of the reason I consider myself in many ways an old man in a young man's body while a at heart for many others...

My Ideal Person When faced with a dilemma or even just an upcoming new experience, focused on the positive outcomes and potential at hand instead of making excuses or listing all of the possible negatives as justification to opt out .. a good analogy is food, I will try anything once at least (as long as it doesn't bite me first! Haha)